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deb - 2008-03-19 17:01:09
It's an interesting topic. Five minutes reading on CraigsList will tell you that there's a significant number of men out there whose wives aren't having sex with them anymore so they want something on the side. Sounds like a load of crap but speaking as a married woman whose husband gave up sex 6 years ago, I believe some of these guys. I wonder a little if they've tried to fix things, but really I haven't tried all that hard so why should I expect that they have? It seems to be rampant.
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Tam - 2008-03-19 17:49:59
Thank you, Deb. Your candor often gives another perspective to issues that can be tunnel vision for others. I really appreciate your input.
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JoAnn - 2008-03-24 22:10:19
Ok my insight or rather question is this...does online flirtation and other instances...such a cyber or a possible phone call count as "cheating"? For me it broke my heart when he told me he was going back to his wife which is where I knew he always belonged, but there's a part that belongs to me as well.. Yet every once in awhile he drops off the planet to give me space from anywhere from 3months to the longest one year... He's done it again and I miss him terribly - but not as the one who I have internet relations with but more so because he's one of the best friends I have...and dammit I miss him dearly even if he lives in Ohio and is married... I just hate it when he feels guilt and slides away...and it's guilt because of what he's "doing" behind his wife's back and guilt of leading me on...to me we're amazing friends who "GET" one another...ok I'm stopping now...gee I should write my own blog on this one haha
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